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MNL's Christmas Blog
Thursday, December 22, 2011
With Painful Steps, and Slow
Mood:  lazy
Now Playing: One Life to Live

I never got to my blog during Christmas 2010: I'm a Facebook person now!

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=500105468

Over the past few years I did manage to give most of the Wish List stuff to my family, with one notable exception: Ken took Rachel and me, along with Becky and maybe a couple other people, to the John Lennon exhibit on its last day at the Museum of Rock and Roll Annex--also the Annex's last day.  Rachel also ran into a former high school classmate working there.  I did eventually get Rachel the book Pepperland.

Right now I'm sitting in Elena's apartment using Brandon's computer and watching One Life to Live.  Yesterday was my 55th birthday.  

 

Monday night on the Q27 bus as I sat in the foremost seat and stretched over to insert my Metrocard, the card flew out of my hand and apparently flew out the crack beneath the doors.  The card had one week to go, expiring December 26.  Fortunately I had enough money in the bank to add $10 to my regular pay-per-ride card.  The following day at work we had our office holiday party, with a spelling bee, which I won!  Cash prize, too!  Coincidentally, the previous night I entered a newly-reopened grocery store in my neighborhood.  They were selling poinsettias.  Looking at the sign, I said, "That's spelled wrong."  My winning word in the spelling bee: poinsettia.  (I believe they actually spelled it "poincetia".)

I got a generous slab of leftover cake from the party, and a co-worker named Christina helped me carry the cake to a cab I hired.  I rode over to Elena's house, getting into a interesting conversation with the driver, who wants to persue his Ph.D. in psychology.  

The following day, December 21, I took a cab to Brandon's high school to pick up a confiscated IPod, then walked to the bank, the liquor store (checking on mead prices), the 99-cent store, then finally the supermarket where I spend the rest of my winnings.  Among other things I bought ingredients for two different recipes for butterbeer.

 

 

That night Angela made herself a sandwich with the rotisserie chicken, and I had chicken and salad and brown rice.  Only Angela was with me when I took out the cake and she sang "Happy Birthday" for me.  Oh--Joanne and Leila had come earlier, and went off with Joanne's laundry and two rolls of Christmas giftwrap.  Brandon, who turned 18 on December 12, went to help a friend and his mother move.  I made the butterbeer with a recipe involving vanilla ice cream and apple cider.  Unfortunately, no one else wanted to have some yet.

I've had varying degrees of knee trouble since I had a trick knee as a teenager, but over the past couple of weeks I've had knee pain so bad that I had to skip work.  I've been moving extremely slowly.  Earlier this week--or was it late last week?--I ran errands around the neighborhood, including returning a two-month overdue copy of Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix.  I left home at 5:30, thinking a normally two-hour trip around town might take an extra hour or two.  I didn't get home until midnight!  (Well, I did stop at three restaurants because I had to rest my aching legs.)

 

 

I've bought most--perhaps all--of the gifts for my "immediate" family.  I also sent three shoeboxes last month to Operation Christmas Child of Samaritan's Purse via a Korean church in Flushing.  That same month I was in the chorus of the Free Synagogue of Flushing's production of Hairspray.  My knees were pretty much behaving themselves during that run.   Thematically, the three boxes, or two of them, were influenced by my Halloween costume this year: Bellatrix Lestrange of the Harry Potter stories.  The boxes contained silver jewelry, including a black-and-silver owl necklace and ring, black clothing such a scarves, and a stuffed owl.  Of course, it couldn't look too "witchy" or the more conservative minds at OCC might alter the package.  They might anyway, for all I know.

I bought some glucosamine tablets a few days ago, and I think my knees have been better for it.

I also this past Sunday attended a concert of the Gotham Rock Choir, which I dropped out of because of Hairspray.  They sang, among other things, the Quincy Jones arrangement of the Hallelujah Chorus--my idea! 


Posted by mnl_1221 at 2:27 PM EST
Updated: Thursday, December 22, 2011 3:07 PM EST
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Monday, May 17, 2010
Boxes to Zambia

Cool  I don't usually enter into my Christmas blog in May, but I hadn't heard from Operation Christmas Child about my trackable boxes, so I wrote to them a couple of weeks ago.  They told me my three boxes went to Zambia. 

http://www.samaritanspurse.org/index.php/OCC/Zambia/

Now I'd prepared boxes with three themes: pink and cats (I hope they didn't take umbrage at that--see Harry Potter 5); Barack Obama; and Michael Jackson.  I wonder if the packages went intact, and if the kids who received them liked them.  Probably Obama and Jackson would have gone over big there.

Now I've heard that OCC takes boxes all year round, so I've been setting aside "giving money" and buying things to prepare boxes to send.  I'm doing another Obama theme, mainly with stuff from Ty--different versions of Bo, the White House dog, and two little girl dolls that are obviously modeled on Sasha and Malia (Malika?).  I also found patriotic USO candy hearts in Duane Reade. 

Ty Beanie Buddy Jake the Mallard Duck RetiredAnother theme is The Catcher in the Rye.  Obviously I won't include the novel, but I'm including things which are referred to in the novel, such as ducks, catcher's mitts (two cheap children's ones I found in the local Walgreen's), and little model NYC taxis.  In fact, I prepared two Easter baskets for an Easter donation drive for the foster children in the Pine Ridge reservation in South Dakota.  I didn't include the novel, but I did include in one basket the poetry of Robert Burns, and in another The Tale of Jemima Puddle-Duck by Beatrix Potter.

Here's a list I created which may indicate what I put in the baskets (well, not entirely): http://www.amazon.com/Catcher-Rye-Gift-Basket/lm/R7T7LM71AALL6/ref=cm_lmt_DYNA_f_1_russss0?pf_rd_p=496996711&pf_rd_s=listmania-center&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B00002SWW9&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=1533DV9N2V3W6R3A5VJ7

I've recenly read To Kill a Mockingbird, and maybe I'll take the Audubon Mockingbird and find things resembling the stuff Scout and Jem found in the tree near the Radley place.  Then there's The Chocolate War: football and chocolate--not actual chocolate, except chocolate hard candy, but chocolate-themed items.  I just found a couple of interesting ones at HersheyStore.com:

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Leila is graduating from college this week, and Angela graduates from high school next month.

Because I couldn't afford much more than Dover Thrift Editions as gifts this Christmas, I took the virtual gifts listed here and made them into a Note of presents on my Facebook page on or around Three Kings Day.  Now a couple of family friends liked and noted my entry, but none of the family wrote any comments.  Truthfully, I don't get followed much on Facebook.  Now Leila, on her birthday last month, got greetings galore!  She seems like she has what it takes to make it in this world.

Now when you go shopping outside the Christmas seasons, you find things you don't find in November or December--summery things like toy catcher's mitts and baseballs, and patriotic candy for Memorial Day, Flag Day, and the Fourth of July.  (These candies would fit the Obama theme.)  Many of the countries don't know winters like ours, and summer gifts might be more appropriate.

 http://www.neccostore.com/red-white-you-sweethearts-boxes.pd

http://www.neccostore.com/red-white-you-sweethearts-bags.pd


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Friday, December 25, 2009
Christmas Day
Mood:  blue

It's Christmas Day--Christmas Night, now--at 6:15pm.  This is the first Christmas that I haven't needed to travel; I woke up where I'm already supposed to be.  I'm also feeling quite lonely.

Ken and Margie went away to a time-share in Arizona, and I'm with Elena's kids.  I've been here since my birthday, December 21.  (I'm 53.)  Angela had gone to the movies, but she's here now, in her room, on her computer.  Brandon went out to play, to skateboard, I think, and now he's with a friend in his room.  Joanne is out with her father and his other kids at the movies, and Leila is probably working.  Becky and Rachel were supposed to be here hours ago, to cook duck or goose and Cornish hen and yams, and, well, they aren't.  They went to visit Rachel's father, but that was supposed to be done hours ago.

I got up around 10am and put on the Yule Log on TV in what was Elena's room.  I washed dishes--I think I did three rounds of dishes throughout the afternoon.  I also cooked Lidia's Macaroni and Cheese, from America Cooks.   Brandon was on the computer earlier, plus playing Guitar Hero, but after he went out I took over his computer.  I cleaned up in the kitchen and the living room--well, straightened up as I could.

Usually by this time I'm either being driven to my destination by Becky or Ken, or I'm already there--which has almost always been here for the last few years.  Oh, yeah--I played WCBS-FM, then WLTW-FM, over this computer.  Just now I turned on the TV news, with all kinds of Christmas-related stories.  Also, The March of the Wooden Soldiers was on Channel 11 earlier.  The Go To Sleep scene reminded me of how I used that song to help me grieve over Elena last year.  Later on YouTube I found a Lego video set to Silent Night about a woman dying in the hospital, and her generous afterlife.  I shared that on Facebook, as I plan to share this entry.

That's it for now.  I wait for Christmas to take full swing.

Oh, I haven't given or received any presents yet--not even virtual ones, except one virtual gift I sent to Idilio Rivera a few weeks ago.  We usually do our gifting in the middle of the evening anyway, after dinner.

 

 

 


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Updated: Friday, December 25, 2009 6:28 PM EST
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Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Virtual Gifts
Mood:  crushed out

Now I haven't been paid since August or September.  I've been living on air these past two weeks.  Ken lent me a lot of money in November and a little more two weeks ago, and also paid my gas bill.  Now I have 12 cents in the bank and maybe two or three dollars on my person, courtesy of Becky.  I've finally applied for Unemployment but some investigations may hold that up.

Fortunately, I bought some Christmas presents in November--cheap, but "from the heart", the best I could do. If I had money, I would supplement those with more.  Maybe God is trying to teach me what Christmas is like for those who have nothng, as opposed to those who have little.  Maybe he's trying to demonstrate to me that Christmas doesn't come from a store--which I already know, but maybe I need to live that this year.  Maybe he's restraining me from buying more gifts.  In the light of what I did last year and previous years, I suppose I feel deep down that what I do isn't enough. 

I did get a lesson in that a few years ago, when something indicated I was doing too much for my nieces and nephew, as if I was the sole or main provider for them!

So anyway, I have some things I've bought and thngs I've found.  However, I want to put here a list of virtual gifts: things I might get if I could:

For Becky:

Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson StoryMedical Apartheid: The Dark History of Medical Experimentation on Black Americans from Colonial Times to the Present

Gifted Hands TV-movie DVD and Medical Apartheid book.

For Ken: I don't know yet.

Leila: 

 Adaptations: From Short Story to Big Screen: 35 Great Stories That Have Inspired Great Films

Adaptations: 35 great stories that have inspired great films

Producer mirror star  http://www.broadwaynewyork.com

 

Rachel:

Pepperland

Pepperland by Mark Delaney...  Or a trip to the current John Lennon exhibit at the Museum of the City of New York, or the Beatles Brunch at B. B. King's, or the cookbook America Cooks if I could win it at online auction!

Joanne: I don't know yet.  I've given her a few Harry Potter things and she may be tired of getting that from me.

Angela:

Crime Scene Investigator Navy Tee

Crime Scend Investigator navy tee NYPD

http://www.grandslamnewyork.com/crime-scene-investigator-navy-p-1735.html?utm_campaign=export_feed&utm_medium=Google+Base&utm_source=googlebase&language=en

 

Brandon:

 2010 Chevrolet Camaro SS 1/18 BlackModel black Chevrolet 2010 Camaro, or Hot Wheels or Matchbox version

Chevrolet Black Leather Key Chain

Black Chevrolet Key Ring--because a guy can dream, can't he?

 me:

 

http://www.broadwaynewyork.com

Most of these things are found on Amazon.com

I suppose much of my Christmas this year will rely less heavily on the material than ever.  But thanks to the Internet--accessed through school or library or such--I have the virtual!

 


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Virtual Christmas--or rather, Virtual Christmas Gifts

Since I tend not to write into the Christmasblog past December 25, I leave it to the next year to reveal what I gave my family for Christmas.

 

Through Vistaprint.com I ordered this calendar magnet commemorating my sister Elena, who as you know died last year on November 24, 2008.  I got 25 of them, I think, and gave out most of them.  The few that are left are probably hidden somewhere in my living room.

I also gave Vistaprint pens, personalized, to my nieces and nephew.  Amazon.com says I ordered an Aaron Neville Christmas album, and I probably gave that to Becky.  To Ken I gave a book of Christmas crossword puzzles.  I noticed that he often likes to fill in the crossword puzzles in AM New York and Metro New York, our free weekday newspapers.  I also gave everyone a Beanie Baby, though I don't remember who got what.  For Elena's boyfriend William I gave, along with the calendar, one of my last copies of the CD mock-up of 60 Years--although I didn't get it to him until July, when Elena's friend Arlene threw a picnic in honor of Elena's birthday.  That same day, after the picnic, William and his brother and I drove to Citifield and sat outside for about an hour listening to Paul McCartney's concert.

I also assembled a shoebox for the family in memory of Elena--a sort of gift to her--including a few toys that memorialized things in her life.  There was a cheerleader pen, with a figure of a brunette cheerleader in green on top; a little woolly black lamb which I got at Bath and Body Works; a blue toy van which resembles the one Elena drove, which I got at a Walgreens or Rite-Aid or Duane Reade in Bayside; a mini Beanie Baby of a gray Huskie that I'd gotten from McDonald's year before, because Elena had temporarily gotten a husky and named it Rocky, but had to give it away.

Now I'd found this beautiful wrapping in the Rite-Aid in Corona: red with many red balls, black shadings, and white highlights.  It reminded me of Elena.  I used it to wrap all my gifts to the family, including the shoebox.

Later, Ken's girlfriend Margie arranged the shoebox items, with a picture of Elena and William and a couple other items, on top of a chest of drawers in a space near the bedrooms and bathroom, as a sort of shrine.

I think I gave books to the kids, too.  I have an impression of giving Leila either a book by Shepherd Mead about succeeding in TV or the book How to Write a Movie in 21 Days by Viki King.  I also bought cards into which I wrote brief messages--not as detailed as two years ago.

Oh, how could I forget this!  I adapted from my diary the entries surrounding Christmas 1986, from September 1986 to January 1987, with a couple of 2008 addenda.  That was the year Ken and I answered a Santa letter from a family in a welfare hotel in Harlem.  That was also the year Elena was pregnant with Leila--first of a new generation--and the year we went to a Monkees concert, and the year the Mets squeaked by the Boston Red Sox to win the World Series.  I was low on money that year, and I gave everyone homemade felt ornaments and woven potholders.  They helped me with the gifts for the Santa letter family.

I wanted to write something here about virtual gifts, but I think I'll make that another entry.

Addendum: I forgot to mention things I've done.  Friday Dec 4, I went to a play at a church near Lefrak City, the same church where I dropped off the Operation Christmas Child shoeboxes last year.  The next day Becky took me to a "holiday hippie" vocal group show by Rob Darnell Hollinsed.  This past Friday Becky and I went to a performance of Handel's Messiah at a church in Hollis, in which New Lifer Ivan Mossup sang bass in the chorus.  Saturday was Brandon's 16th birthday.  We went bowling (I didn't bowl, but I watched) and later had cake at the house.  The next morning his sisters gave him an Ipod for his birthday, and he was way excited!

 


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Updated: Tuesday, December 15, 2009 8:44 PM EST
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Monday, November 30, 2009
The Caulfield Christmas Tour

Yesterday, the Sunday after Thanksgiving, the first Sunday of Advent, Ken, Margie, Brandon, and I took a personal Holden Caulfield/Catcher in the Rye tour of parts of Manhattan mentioned in the book.

 We met up on the N train and got off at 5th Avenue and 60th Street.  First stop: the Pond at Central Park South.  Yes, the ducks were there, plenty of them.  Mallards.  The pond isn't anywhere near frozen yet; we've had a warm fall.  Ken and Brandon climbed one of the rocks overlooking the pond.  They also took pictures.

Then we walked to the zoo, which was closing.  The sun was beginning to set.  Ken explained that the park used to be free, but now they charge admission.  He also showed where the children's zoo used to be.  From the walkway near the zoo, we could see the sea lion pool, and the sea lions swimming underneath the water, sometimes poking their heads through the water's surface.

I suggested we walk to East 71st Street and Fifth Avenue, where the Caulfields "live".  We walked on a pathway going north in the park and exited at East 69th, then walked the two blocks north.  I was going to mention that Pale Male, the red hawk, had lived there on a perch on a building on E 72nd Street a few years ago, but I forgot.  Ken crossed the street to 900 Fifth Avenue and asked the doorman when the building was built, and he said the mid-1950s, I think--too late for our story.  Two buildings filled that block and I think they both had a 12th floor.

We rode the bus to Rockefeller Center, and walked down the path of the Christmas Angels to the tree, which is not lit yet, and the skating rink.  To skate and to rent cost umpteen dollars, so we watched.  I said I was trying to see which couples could be Holden and Sally.  I saw one couple kissing semi-passionately and I said, "It's not them!"

We ate at Dean and Deluca; I had pumpkin cheesecake and seltzer.  We stopped at the NBC Gift Shop for a while before we got back on the train home.

http://www.usatoday.com/travel/train/catcherx-large.jpg

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

http://wirednewyork.com/images/manhattan/rockefeller_center/rockefeller_skating.jpg

I just read over this interesting article online with this quote:

"as teachers we’re so programmed and predictable because we spend more energy on producing what passes for measurable achievement than we do cultivating imaginative minds."

The Ducks in Central Park, or
 Why You Can’t Teach The Catcher in the Rye

by Lawrence Bowden

http://www.americanpopularculture.com/archive/bestsellers/catcher.htm

 


Posted by mnl_1221 at 9:22 PM EST
Updated: Monday, November 30, 2009 10:43 PM EST
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Friday, November 20, 2009
It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...
Mood:  chillin'

The Christmas street lights are strung across National Street in Corona, Main Street in Flushing, 71st Avenue in Forest Hills, and other places.  I heard on the radio (no TV for me since June 12) that yesterday they light the snowflake over 57th Street and 5th Avenue in Manhattan.

Merry Christmas, Holden Caulfield!  I had reason to read it again this year, and Brandon is studying Catcher in the Rye now.  He and Angela have agreed to help me with some classes I'm taking, and Catcher in the Rye is to be our focus.  Hmm...the musical CITR...Merry Christmas, Holden Caulfield!

Earlier this year I wrote lyrics to "Little Shirley Beans", but my lyrics were all wrong.  The book tells what the song is about (it doesn't exist in real life).  I could try again.  Mine was about a barely-out-of-her-teens seductress who "love the men of means".

Anyway, it's Operation Christmas Child time again, and this is the Collection Week.  I dressed as Dolores Umbridge, the woman in pink from the Harry Potter series (which I read, all seven books, earlier this year).  One of my boxes is an explosion of pink things and cats.  The other two are tributes to Michael Jackson, who died this past June 25, and to Barack Obama, who of course became our country's first African-American President.  I'll describe the boxes in detail a little later.  Tomorrow I plan to deliver the boxes to a drop-off place in Corona.

I can't remember the cat's name and I can't find her image on the computer right now.

Addendum: actually, the cat is a Ganz.  I can't find her exact image online, but here's something similar.

 

 


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Sunday, December 28, 2008
The Bells of St Mary's, I hear they are ringing
Mood:  special

Becky, Elena, and I all went to grade school at St Mary's School, LIC, Queens, in the 1960s.  I graduated eighth grade from a public school, IS 61 Q.  Anyway, on Christmas Eve, after the service at New Life Fellowship, Becky and I decided to go to the service at St. Mary's Church.  We got confused about the starting time, and we took a taxi to get there on time.  Once there, Becky decided to invite Ken, too.  He and Margie had gone to a service in their own church.

 So Becky and I got there in time, and Ken and Margie got there later. 

Now the church is having its 140th anniversary, and a church worker named Giovanna has been collecting photos of past decades and putting them up in the church.  Among the display set in the 1960s, Ken recognized the photo of Elena's third-grade class with Mrs. Greco--and there she was, eight-year-old Elena seated with her class.

 "She managed to show up," I said.  It was amazing that, in a way, all four of us were there.

When we told Giovanna the story, she said to us, "You were meant to be here tonight."

We said we would come back someday and help her identify the people in those photographs.

 

 


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Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Tales of the glories of Christmases long long ago
Mood:  suave

Remember a few years ago I said I wish I could write a Christmas story?  Well, I just did.  Actually, I'd written it 22 years ago, since it's from diary entries from 1986.  As I wrote, I noticed the day-to-date pattern was the same as this year's!

 I may have included too much extraneous information.  I suppose I should give my brain a day or two to cool off, then edit what I wrote.  Yet, I think I'll be reading it over on the way home.  (I'm at the office now.)

 It's 6:45, and I probably won't get home in time to catch the start of The Nutcracker on Channel 13, which starts at 8pm, I think.  I should get going now!

 


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Tuesday, December 16, 2008
We drank a toast to innocence...
Mood:  sad

How can I say this?  Happy Birthday to someone long gone, whom I didn't know well enough and yet deeply touched me.  Someone whom I had too little contact with.

  

I was at AIDSQuilt.org hoping to search the panels, but the panel search has been out of commission for years now?  Why?  Are they afraid of people stealing images?

Look at what else they have:

 

 

 


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